Tuesday, April 23, 2013

A surprise visitor!

Yesterday marked another 'first' in my life - chasing a monkey through
my house!

Thankfully with the help of a friend, he quickly exited via his entry
route!

(We have seen more of the monkeys in the last few weeks, including
them coming to get a drink at our plunge pool, but inside my house is
not really to my liking!)

We are very much aware from stories of friends, that you have to be
careful about monkeys getting into your house. One of our 'sons'
who's home village is Mochudi tells of the daily ritual his
grandmother used to perform, to close all the house windows around
midday before the monkeys ran across the village to the hill where the
chief's house is, where they were apparently fed each day. She knew
that if she didn't close the windows, the monkeys would just run right
through the house, grabbing sugar and whatever else they felt like
along the way. She would have to repeat the process a couple of hours
later, when they were on their way back!

But yesterday morning, I was with a friend in my 'day room' sharing
some suggested counselling book titles, and as I looked through to the
sitting/dining room area I suddenly saw an odd looking monkey land on
our dining room table!

In a flash, I got up (who knows what my heart rate was doing!), loudly
clapped my hands and got him moving. In one swift motion he jumped
and swung up the hand rail of the stairs and across into the upstairs
bedroom where my friend had been staying for a few days. Thankfully
she was at the house with me at the time.
"Do you know anything about getting a monkey out of one's house" I
asked!
Her answer of "No" didn't help us much!
So I suggested we try a broom!
Without delay, she took the broom, banging the floor as she went after
the monkey, hoping he would find his way out, whatever way he had
managed to come in. We realised then that he had come in through a
high small window in the upstairs bedroom. We were both relieved when
he went back out the little window as quick as can be, ran down the
roof and positioned himself on the post outside. This was where I got
to see why he had seemed to look a bit 'odd' when I had seen him on
the dining table - he was covered in white paint!!! This was one
daring and naughty monkey, who's adventures had obviously got himself
in more than one scrape in his little life! (Maybe he got inquisitive
someplace and pulled down a tin off a shelf and tipped it contents all
over himself! ) He did look a sight!

Well, after we had got him outside, and securely closed the little
window, I went to wipe over the dining table with some disinfectant
and realised there was a reason he landed on the table!...... lying on
the table beside the fruit bowl was a 'banana' he had pulled from the
bowl and had hoped to enjoy. (Well, I have confirmed that its no 'old
wives tale' that monkeys favourite food is bananas) I'll never know
whether he planned on eating it right there or running off with it to

show his friends how clever he was! But, either way, I interrupted

his plans!

But as I looked at that banana, I couldn't help but chuckle to myself.....because.... it would have been a futile exercise for him anyway, as it wasn't actually a real banana, but a piece of 'fruit' from our bowl of 'plastic pretend fruit'!!

Saturday, April 13, 2013

A Grand-daughter's gift!

Today marks a day of mixed emotions as our little 2yr old 'grand-
daughter' and her parents move back to Zimbabwe to live.

In many ways they don't want to go, but a variety of situations
require them to.

We have been making the most of these last weeks and days with them
with special outings and meals together. We have had so many special
'grand-parent' times and have lots of special memories and photos! We
will miss them a lot and they will miss us too. We have had so much
fun as little Tarnisha grows in her vocabulary of Shona (her parents
language), English (her 'grand-parents' language!) and Setswana (the
local language) and endeavours to work out which people understand
which words!
 We have watched her discover about pulling her little
wagon, figure out how to use her tiny 'kids' garden rake as she helps
her dad in the garden, learn to 'clap hands' with her 'Grand-pa
(Sekuru) and do drawings with her 'pens' (crayons) with Grand-ma
(Gogo). We have been encouraged as she learns about talking to God and
puts her hands together waiting for someone to 'give thanks to God' so
she can eat.

But yesterday brought another smile to my face and whenever I look at
this photo, I'll have a special memory... that I want to share...

Little Tarnisha's parents were packing the last of their things into a
box in our carport and I went out to sit and chat with them while they
worked. So Tarnisha came to sit with Gogo (that kept her occupied and
out from under her parents feet). After a while she took me by the
finger and led me to sit with her in a different spot, which we did
for a bit. Then she led me back by the finger to the first spot
again. After a few minutes, she took my finger again and tugged at my
arm to come with her to another spot. She didn't have the English
words yet to say what she wanted properly, but her mum interpreted the
Shona words for me - she wanted Gogo to come play with her in the sand
in our driveway. Between her mum and I, we explained that Gogo can't keep moving and can't go and play in the sand with her but that she
could go and play in the sand. She seemed to understand and happily enough went to the sand. 

But I was in for a surprise! A minute or so
later, she came back to me carefully carrying two full hands of sand and got me to open my hands so she could 'deliver' her gift. Then off
she went to get more! When she thought she had enough she stood in front of my open hand with its little pile of sand and proceeded to
play with that sand! When it had all been bumped out or fallen through my fingers, she just went and got more sand and brought it! Her creative thinking and kind heart and thoughtfulness of bringing the
sand to Gogo since Gogo couldn't go to the sand, touched our hearts.
How precious!

Well, before long my white trousers were quite dirty -
it looked like I really had played in the sand with her!