- Majority morality does not factor God in (we've known this for a long time of course)
- Majority morality has not only moved away from what pleases God, but as the bottom line also has moved away from what is best in the interest of others (although we still tell ourselves we act for the good of others and this 'respect' argument plays on that), to actually being determined and motivated by 'what makes me look morally right' in the eyes of people, and 'what makes me feel good or better about myself'
- Majority morality is fast moving towards being oriented toward 'respectful relationships' rather than 'rule keeping'
- ...this feeds into then seeking respect from, and giving respect to, people rather than God ….and thus seeking affirmation, approval, acceptance, significance, value and identity on a human creature level rather than a Creator level.
- this provides great gospel-sharing opportunities to people who are seeking to give and receive respect and value and are searching to find a satisfying identity and purpose
Tuesday, October 03, 2023
Australia's Voice and the issue of 'Respect'
Friday, March 03, 2023
Unpacking Honour
Hand 1
There are 5 basic underlying factors we have to recognise about honour and shame that may seem obvious but overlooking them can hinder our understanding of how honour functions…..
1. Honour originates with God. It is not a human construct, but is firstly inherent internally within God Himself and then externalised by God.
2. Honour is two sided in two ways
a. The other side of honour is lack of or loss of honour which = shame
- We crave honour and fear shame
b. There is received honour and given honour
3. Honour is an umbrella word – and various words in the 'honour family' of words can carry varying weight, impact, nuance or perspectives
4. Honour is 'graded glory'
a. Glory of general creation, glory of mankind in God's image, and the glory of God himself are each different.
b. 1 Peter 2:17 'honour everyone, love the brethren, fear God, honour the king'. The way we appropriately honour the position of a king may be different from the right and appropriate honour we should give so as to reflect the value of every human being without partiality.
c. 2 Cor 3:18 'And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. Our growth in grace will result in the degree to which there is growth in exhibited glory shining out through our life.
5. Honour is an 'everywhere-everybody core issue' in sinful 'mis-placed' ways (by definition and degree), and needing to be 'replaced' in biblical ways. It is the core motivation of all we think and do.
Hand 2
Here are 5 ways (although there might be more), we can view and unpack the dimensions, scope and elements of honour in order to begin to better appreciate and appropriate them in our theology and practical living...
1. IAAA Honour View
a. Inherent – e.g. 'I am the Lord' Lev 25:38
b. Ascribed – when inherent positional glory is recognised and conferred – e.g.'Ascribe greatness to our God' Deut 32:3
c. Achieved – e.g. 'I am the Lord... who brought you out of the Land of Egypt'
d. Associated – e.g. 'If my people who are called by my name…' 2 Chron 7:14
- Who you are, what you do, who you are with.
2. Creation-Cross-Crown Honour View
a. Creation – inherent honour, ascribed honour, value, as human beings created by God in His image.
b. Cross – redemption honour restoring lost spiritual-life-glory – as saints we have ascribed glory - in Christ, by association with the One (the Lord Jesus Christ) who first has it ascribed and has also achieved it.
c. Crown – achieved and bringing future, reward yet to be received beyond the grave. Full and forever glory yet to be realised and experienced physically as well as spiritually/positionally.
3. Sessions View (Sessions, W.L., 2007) - I call this the Sessions View because it was formulated by Mr W L Sessions.
a. Conferred – 'regard, esteem or respect given…[& the] token of this regard – gifts, rewards, attention and the like'
b. Recognition – 'publicly noticing and awarding due esteem for excellencies that merit or deserve such esteem' …recognise excellence and worth
c. Positional – 'doing something that positions someone "above" others in the social group; it is relative to the others' accomplishments or status'
d. Commitment – not person to person honour, but person to 'principles and propositions lodged in such speech-acts as promises, agreements or contracts.'
e. Personal – honour as an achieved 'sense of honour' virtue of adhering loyally to a group's honour code – commitment to a code and a community…where an honour code is 'socially shared and publicly supported'.
4. Love and Life View
a. Love – honour and shame involve heart not just head, emotion/affection not just knowledge, in fact it is usually felt before it is cognitively understood.
b. Life – it impacts all of life, and God wants our 'whole life' worship, love and honour. This is not just a 'section' of life, but impacts/directs all of life.
5. Hierarchy of Honour (and opposite/contrast)...
1) Acknowledgement (to ignore, not look at or see)
2) Consideration (disinterest, disregard, forget someone)
3) Appreciation (belittle, contempt, embarrass, disappoint)
4) Invitation (banish, pass-over, disgrace, exclude)
5) Acceptance (reject, separate, failure)
6) Submission (rebellion, pride, self-promotion, stubbornness, resist)
7) Obedience (disobedience)
8) Approval (disapprove, disagree, criticise)
9) Adoration (despise, abhor)
10) Trust (betray, disloyal)
11) Emulation (rebuke, attack, oppose)
12) Allegiance (deny, destroy, forsake)
[As I have pondered honour and shame over the years, I realised that we can't take every form of honour on the same level as every other form of honour. Without realising it we function in life in accord with a kind of honour-hierarchy. So in the above 12 points/levels, 1) is the 'lowest' level and 12) is the 'highest' level. In other words, in the simplest form, acknowledgement is honour, but acknowledgement does not include allegiance, yet allegiance includes all points 1-11 before it. So to honour someone by inviting them to your birthday party, for example, you have already acknowledged them and considered them and appreciated them to some degree. But even just to appreciate someone for doing something for you doesn't necessarily or automatically mean they qualify to be invited to the birthday party.
Hopefully this makes some sense as you observe the world of personal interactions around you.]...And Spectrum of Shame View (and opposite dynamic)
1) Disappointment (to be pleased)
2) Embarrassment (to be praised)
3) Disapproval (to be welcomed)
4) Humiliation (to be highly exalted)
5) Rejection (to be chosen)
6) Death – Shame (Life – glory/honour)
[Another way of looking at this variety of expression of shame and honour, is to look first at how shame is also more than one concept, but a range of emotion from 'lower' levels of disappointment to 'higher' levels of rejection and ultimate shame. We may not readily realise that 'disappointment' is on the shame-spectrum. But when we begin to realise these are part of the honour-shame dynamic we can begin to apply biblical truth related to honour-shame principles to these issues. Without this understanding, we miss the connection and stay blind to the truth of Scripture that God wants to use to transform our thinking and bring truth that sets us free from how Satan wants to use these things to keep us in bondage.]
Some of us primarily focus on avoiding shame that would undermine glory they already perceive they have, others seek glory to escape shame in which they see themselves, but we all do both in some way, and both are ultimately showing our hunger for honour and avoidance for what threatens honour.
Though this has been just a brief outline of each point, I pray you might find it helpful and encouraging in understanding yourself, your world and the wonderful truths in the pages of Scripture.
Monday, October 24, 2022
The Queen is now with her King of Kings: Snippets of learning more about honour dynamics amidst the death of Her Majesty - Snippet 7
'I feel like as a birthright of the revolution I shouldn't have to care about the monarchy…that my forefathers died and won a war so that I could care more about Texas Alabama on this Saturday than the monarchy in England…but I do feel, and I think you helped highlight this in a conversation we had this weekend that I should appreciate the value of constancy and tradition that is represented in the monarchy and should be marked with the passing of the Queen and ascension of the King. Why should I care?'
"she represented a set of values which I believe many Americans as well as many British people fear have gone from society, ...the value of putting others above yourself, not saying its all about me, not moaning about yourself, Queen Elizabeth's thing she learnt from her mother ' never complain, never explain' . People don't want to hear your complaints. There was a saying in Britain in the past I grew up with 'mustn't grumble' - why should you not grumble, because everyone could grumble, you don't because you will only make other people's days worse. As a young woman she said 'my life whether it be short or long will be dedicated to your service' the service of her country. And this is among many other values she had, including her very deep Christian faith, these are values I think that a lot of people sense we have lost and that she was the last embodiment of those values".
That idea — of service — of putting others above yourself, and putting your country above everything but God is an idea that has become unpopular in much of Britain as it has in America. But it is the noblest of ideals: a demonstration of sacrifice and of a lack of self-centeredness. It was at the core of the Queen's being…..The concept of there being something bigger than yourself has been lost on some for the time being at least. Perhaps the Queen's passing will remind them — and all of us — of virtues that we will miss if they are permanently gone.
'A number of people say there is a problem with the monarchy which is that it seems to be the epitome of unearned privilege. [but] I keep saying to people well, that suggests that unearned privilege is something that is unheard of in America, which is a hard position to hold, and secondly it actually misses something very important…one of the remarkable things of the constitutional monarchy [is]that the inevitable national obsession with dynasties is focused on one dynasty and that one that has lasted more than 1000 years, the institution of the monarchy.To a great extent this is a political interest, but it is also to do with an inevitable biological interest which is our interest in watching genes play out, our interest in watching generation after generation of family—Where are the black sheep? Who are the bad eggs? Who are the people who really are the inheritors of the great figures of the past? and much more,….But nationally, [on the UK] that obsession focuses solely on the institution of the monarchy.We don't have as a result, political dynasties. We don't have that. We have a little bit of it on the political left interestingly enough—the Ben family, Harriet Harmen of the Packenhams, you might say a little bit of millarbandary or….[but] we don't have political dynasties. Nobody is obsessed in Britian as to whether John Major's children are going to come back and save us. Or whether the Blairs are going to run for office again.Whereas in America, politics is very dominated by a few dynasties.People are obsessed with it. You can go back to the founding in the 19th Century in America to the Adams dynasty in American politics, you can look at the Roosevelts for instance, coming more up to date, the Kennedys. Even more up to date, look at the way in which over the past 25 years it has looked at times like the Presidency is going to rotate between the Clinton family and the Bush family!Look at the way people in which have wondered if Michelle Obama is going to run for office. Is Chelsea Clinton going to run at some point? Are the Bushes going to offer us up a new generation of talent? Even the disrupters in American politics - Donald Trump…is Don junior going to run?Think of this is British terms and it seems obsurd. Are the Johnson children being lined up for political office? I would think not.One of the many many things that the constitutional monarchy does that is so good, is that it actually detoxifies the political arena from having hereditary electoral politics...As well as providing us with constitutional order and much much more.Running for the top job in America means you have to able to bundle a lot of money, have a lot of connections nationally across all the states, and you could argue is that what we are really talking about (and this is what one American commentator said to me) is celebrity really.In order to run for office in America you need to be famous!…Dr Oz is agood example at the moment. If you are big on television…you can become big in politics.There is something in that, but that doesn't explain the dynasties other than they are well placed to bundle money and so on.But I think there is something else, I think there is sense that - and this is a very anti-Americocratic sense, there has been a sense that some people know how to rule.In Britain we get that out of the way with the house of Windsor.In America you just have this sense always there are some people who know how to do it…and how would X know how to do it, they haven't ever been near office. Whereas if people have been near office they somehow might be naturally knowledgeable about how to run the country, I do think it is an odd temptation, an odd inclination…its very anti-Americacratic and yet its wholly America.
'start attacking her late Majesty for the crimes of slavery they should remember it was her very distant ancestor George III who signed the anti-slavery act in 1807, many decades before American had a civil war and had to kill 600000 of its own citizens in order to do away with the vial trade, Britain did away with it peacefully and then policed the high seas for decades at enormous national cost. So I'm afraid what we see in some of the American response to the death of the Queen has been an alarming historic ignorance driven by an alarming present day anamous.'
'I'm a great admirer of the constitutional monarchy system, there is a wisdom about it…there are other …monarchy systems still left in Europe but they are a pale reflection of what you've got in the UK...The thing about the monarchy that is so cool is that in the United States there is the judiciary, the legistlative branch and the executive - that separation of powers and the checks and balances that are part and parcel of that and that is a great system…and then you also have the States and they have their power against the Federal Government and that stops things from becoming too tryannical in principle. But here [UK]…you have four divisions - you have executive, legistlative, judicial and symbolic. And the monarch holds the symbolic weight and that's really smart because it separates it to some degree from the political weight.You see what happens in the United States is first of all the President tends to turn into the Tzar, because they have this idea in the United States now like First Lady, what the H*** is that? We don't have that in Canada. Nobody knows anything about Justin Trudeau's wife, and that's been the history of Canadian politicians, like just because you are Justin Trudeau's wife doesn't mean you're Queen! But in the United States, its like 'well you know, Hilary Clinton, maybe she's queen?'And that's partly because there is that demand for the symbolic weight that the leader should manifest.You also see that in some degree in the United States which is a star-worshipping culture obviously with the glitterality and royalty of Hollywood. And its better put there …in the entertainment section, even though that is somewhat dangerous as it tends to elevate actors to pronouncers of ethical virtues but better there than the political realm. But Trump he is like king and president rolled up into one and that is too much.And so I really admire the monarchical system and the UK has done a wonderful job of maintaining that. ...This tradition that you have here, monarchical tradition…is tremendously attractive to people who don't have that…its is so theatrical, so unique. And then you had Queen Elizabeth…that's quite the woman there….how many 13? prime-ministers? So you had someone around to intimidate all your prime-ministers, that's a really good idea and I'm sure she did a fine job of that. And you can imagine how useful it was psycologically…for the prime minister who has monarchical temptations in some sense (like Trump did) to have to go on a regular basis to this remarkable person who had seen this immense span of political history, and confess…in some real sense… and be subject to her cautious and wise judgement. Because she was a woman who was traditional and cautious and wise in the highest degree. (There were scandals in her family but you have a family and if people knew what was happening in your family don't you think there would be scandals)…she was remarkably free of scandals over that entire period….that's a h*** of a thing to manage for 70 years.
'because she had met almost every interesting person who ever lived in the last 70 years including every world leader, every scientist, every expert, everyone, she had extraordinary wisdom and knowledge that she just amassed over time, which she basically knew a lot about a lot'
The monarchy has survived in a world that came to reject social hierarchy, deference, aristocracy, tradition and religion. With every force and sensibility turning away from it, the Queen still found ways to connect with ordinary people, to articulate a shared life, and mutely embodied in her conduct what our newly progressive nation no longer wished to hear explicitly articulated…...And this too is the power of monarchy. It creates a sacred bond between the land we inhabit and the mortal body of the Queen. The life of our country, its sovereignty and laws, are not an abstraction or an agglomeration — it has a place, in the breast of its sovereign, our Queen. In a world of ever more virtual information, in which decisions are rarely made by a single individual, in which accountability is diffused amongst the chaos of vast, inhuman systems, this is a rare and precious thing.
'There's not a single person in America, not a politician, not a notable [person] that I would have waited in the rain for hours to watch go by. The fact that I'm an American in the street in the rain waiting for your Queen to go by is….we don't have anything like this. It's a connection to history that you have, we really don't. Now we are struggling with our politics. We don't have anything 'above it'!